Grounded in decades of combined lived experience raising children with FASD into young adulthood and years of professional training, coaching, mentoring, and conferences, this training offers a practical, compassionate look at what truly supports neurodiverse children and the caregivers who love them. Participants will explore how the emotional and sensory atmosphere of the home influences behavior, including the surprising impact of walls, kitchens, and visual spaces on regulation. Through real-life examples and FASD-informed strategies, presenters will guide attendees from “won’t” to “can’t,” helping caregivers and professionals reduce conflict, increase understanding, and create calmer homes and community settings through intentional planning and realistic expectations.